While anthropomorphism can be a slippery slope to unrealistic comparisons between humans and animals, to deny the similarities between the ways in which dogs and children learn would be intellectually dishonest. And in doing so we would miss an opportunity to better understand the minds of two animals that have co-evolved alongside one another for the mutual benefit of both species over many thousands of years. Because dogs’ and humans’ respective evolutionary paths have become so inextricably intertwined, it makes sense that many of the mechanisms for learning in one would be reflected somehow in the other.
Throughout our shared history, dogs and humans have co-evolved to become true partners. Because of my relationships with the dogs in my life, I am better equipped to adapt proactively in a changing world. Having committed to the canine-inspired lifestyle, dogs help me stay active, fit, happy and healthy! As one who trains service dogs, runs with dogs, and has survived devastating grief with dogs by my side, my life's work it to progress this healing movement!
Sunday, August 10, 2014
Dogs, Kids, and Learning: A Comparative Exploration
While anthropomorphism can be a slippery slope to unrealistic comparisons between humans and animals, to deny the similarities between the ways in which dogs and children learn would be intellectually dishonest. And in doing so we would miss an opportunity to better understand the minds of two animals that have co-evolved alongside one another for the mutual benefit of both species over many thousands of years. Because dogs’ and humans’ respective evolutionary paths have become so inextricably intertwined, it makes sense that many of the mechanisms for learning in one would be reflected somehow in the other.
Friday, June 27, 2014
A Rebuttal to Cesar Millan's Critics
Thursday, June 12, 2014
Shedding the Weight
Wednesday, April 16, 2014
A New F.A.D. in Service Dog Training
Envision this. Bill, an American male in his early 40’s, has struggled with weight issues all his life. Bill is depressed and uses junk food as an emotional anesthetic. He gets up in the morning feeling dread, and comes home from work each night with fast food to the empty calories of Reality TV. Bill is crippled by a lack of motivation to do better for himself. His negative, sedentary lifestyle has become a disability with which he needs serious help.
Friday, March 21, 2014
Walking With Dogs is A Conversation...A Dance
Friday, March 7, 2014
Loving Fred: Reflections of a Service Dog Trainer
My job over the last year has been to train a Labrador puppy as a service dog for a child with autism. Having graduated with an A.S. in Assistance Dog Education from Bergin University of Canine Studies last spring, I was thrilled to be hired as a trainer right out of the gate by a wonderful organization called Good Dog Autism Companions. GDAC, a small non-profit based in San Diego, is run by a couple whose thirteen year old son has autism, and whose lives were transformed by a service dog named Orbit. Different in many ways than the larger assistance dog organizations like Guide Dogs for the Blind or Canine Companions for Independence, GDAC doesn't utilize puppy raisers that are different than the dogs' trainers. Instead, the trainers raise and train the pups from ten weeks old to approximately one year old. This means that Fred -- the little guy I named after Mr. Rogers, on whose birthday Fred's litter was born -- has been with me every single day since he was a tiny, chubby little butterball. He may as well be my first born for the love he evoked the moment I laid eyes on his pink, heart-shaped nose and soulful green-gray eyes.
Anyone who handles dogs that aren't their own -- such as pet sitters or boarders, rescue dog foster families, and service dog puppy raisers -- knows that there is a delicate dance involved in giving a dog 100% of your love while also maintaining a necessary amount of "emotional distance". But because I have confidence in my ability to let him go when the time comes, I believe that loving Fred truly, deeply and madly until the last minute I have with him is perfectly acceptable. In fact, I think that if I felt differently, I wouldn't be the person that I am, which means I wouldn't be the trainer that I am. And if I weren't the trainer that I am, Fred may not be the service dog he was born to be! And so it is as it should be. That being said, I can give this precious dog all my love for the time he and I have left together. And undoubtedly I will love him until the end of time and carry him with me in spirit always. But when the actual moment comes to hand him over to his future, I will have to suspend my feelings...and wait until I drive away to let the tears flow.
In order to facilitate the connection between Fred and his boy, an act of absolute detachment on my part will be key. It will have to happen literally the instant I hand over the leash. To even emote in Fred's general direction during that beginning stage of their partnership will interfere with Fred and Ben's crucial bonding process. So, even though I will undoubtedly feel like crumbling into a thousand pieces at that fated moment, I will simply have no other option but to keep it together.
Make no mistake, pain is not the only emotion I will feel during this time. In fact, even the pain is part of a much bigger and fuller picture; a direct reflection of the joy Fred has brought to my life; a measure of the bond that exists and will always exist between us. Furthermore, the beauty I will inevitably see -- and in fact have already witnessed -- in the relationship between Fred and Ben will transcend the pain, no matter how great.
Only after I've completed my job and hit the road will I allow my emotions to surface. I have no doubt this will hurt so much as to take my breath away in moments. But knowing what magic awaits in Fred and Ben's now conjoined life will carry me through.
Though it is a somewhat taboo thing to share, I would be lying if I said that Fred hasn't acted as an emotional support dog for me during the year we've spent together. He has given me purpose and faith when those things could have otherwise vanished without a trace. He has reminded me to LIVE when depression threatened to keep me under the covers forever. Fred has been a vehicle through which to share with people the important work I am doing -- whether it be one-on-one, in a classroom full of kids, via a huge social media network of adoring Fred fans, or on stage holding a microphone! Fred has been my teacher and my mirror. He has shown me what I am capable of and also the places in me that still need work. He has forgiven my trespasses and stayed close to me when I could barely keep from pushing the whole world away. Fred is, simply put, a gift.
Helping bring Fred's potential as a service dog to fruition has brought my own potential as a trainer to fruition. Not to mention, Fred has acted as a therapeutic force for rescue dogs with severe fear and anxiety owed to the darkness of their pasts. Fred can get any dog to play with him. In fact he won't let up play-bowing until he has brought out the inner-puppy in every dog he meets. In fact, Fred brings out the best in everyone, human and canine alike.
While it has never been Fred's job to enhance my life, or be of service to me, or assist me with the particular issues that can render me helpless some days...he has done all of these things. He has done them every single day, without question and without fail. Obviously Fred is destined to enhance not only Ben's life, but the whole world of which he is such a magical part. And it has been my honor to play the role I have in his life.
Dog Speed,
Monday, February 3, 2014
Zen & The Art of Walking the Dog
Part 1/
Fred and I are thoroughly enjoying a couple of days with a friend in San Diego following our time in Long Beach. As always, we are using our time together for two purposes: to work and to play. One of my all-around favorite activities is to walk/run with dogs at night. Not only is it freeing and fun, especially in a city that is new to both Fred and me; it also provides the context for important training and practice.
Fred, at ten months old, is going through a challenging new phase where he gets overly excited and over-stimulated on walks. If another dog enters the scene, even as far as two or three blocks ahead of us, Fred starts yipping and barking and pulling on the leash. As so many of you understand, this kind of issue is very frustrating. It is especially so with regard to a service dog in training that has only a couple of months left in which to train.
So. We use night runs -- past duck ponds with fountains in lively cities -- as a way (for both of us) to practice being CALM in high-stimulus environments. It's a paradoxical practice in zen: We use what naturally gets us worked up as a means of relaxing. In the midst of heightened sound and smell and movement, we practice slowing down and taking deeper breaths. At the height of my desire to maintain control, I let go. Instead of trying to "make" Fred behave a certain way, I envision -- from a place of quiet resolve -- seeing it happen naturally.
For all of our hard work and concentration in Long Beach, we're rewarding ourselves with some laid back rest time in San Diego. We will hit the road back to Tehachapi tomorrow.
Until then, Mutt Militia, Go With Dog!
-- Liz